***BRIDAL MAKEUP TIPS - 10 DOS***
Simply say 'I do' to the following rules and prepare to wow.
Do:
1. 'Make sure you have your trial at least three weeks, but no more than 5 weeks, before your wedding says M·A·C Senior Artist, Rebecca B...utterworth.
2. 'Wear a white t-shirt if you’re having your make-up test in a store so that you can see how the make-up looks against a pale colour and take a picture of yourself in day light (with no flash) to see how it looks before you purchase anything,' says celebrity make-up maestro Caroline Barnes.
Simply say 'I do' to the following rules and prepare to wow.
Do:
1. 'Make sure you have your trial at least three weeks, but no more than 5 weeks, before your wedding says M·A·C Senior Artist, Rebecca B...utterworth.
2. 'Wear a white t-shirt if you’re having your make-up test in a store so that you can see how the make-up looks against a pale colour and take a picture of yourself in day light (with no flash) to see how it looks before you purchase anything,' says celebrity make-up maestro Caroline Barnes.
3. 'Emphasize your eyes by brightening any darkness under them with corrector and concealer,' says Bobbi Brown.
4.' Bring references to your make-up trial. Start looking for images of make-up that you really like and bring them with you on the day. Try to identify what it is you like about the make-up in the image and take into account that if you have the skin colour of Dita Von Teese then the make-up of Kim Kardashian won't necessarily translate onto you,' says Rebecca from M·A·C.
5. 'Remember that bridal make-up needs to have enough colour to compensate for the whiteness of the dress. There’s a big difference between everyday clothes and a wedding dress, so there should be difference in your make-up, too. Start by making sure your skin looks even and smooth, and then add colour to your cheeks and lips to give them a glow,' says Bobbi Brown.
6. 'Use individual eyelashes – they’re a brilliant way to make your eyes stand out and look far more subtle than a full strip. Go for differing lengths to create a really natural fluttery look and nestle them in between your natural lashes rather than fixing them on top,' says Rebecca.
7. 'Focus on the most important elements of your look, such as beautifully natural-looking skin, softly groomed brows and feathery lashes. If you get these basic factors right the rest of your make-up will fall into place,' says Caroline Barnes.
8. 'Research application methods as they might differ slightly from your everyday make-up routine. For example, if you prefer to line with a shadow, make it last longer by applying it with a slightly damp eyeliner brush,' says Bobbi.
9.' Go pro. The best wedding make-up should last as long as you do so I love M·A·C’s Prolongwear range which includes foundations, concealers, lip and eye products that provide superior wear that will see you through your wedding day and night,' says Rebecca.
10. 'Finish your make-up off with a highlighter shade on the browbone to make the eyes really pop. Go for a light matte shade, and pat onto the outer corner of the brow bone so subtly draw attention to this area of your face,
It is traditional for a couple to exchange wedding rings after they say their vows. Since these rings are symbols of the marriage, the words said during a ring exchange should reflect the couple's hopes for their marriage. These words may be simply incorporated into the wedding vows, or treated as a separate ritual. Here is some example wording to use during your ring exchange or ring ceremony:
Secular/Non Denominational Vows for the Ring Exchange
I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and faithfulness. As I place it on your finger, I commit my heart and soul to you. I ask you to wear this ring as a reminder of the vows we have spoken today, our wedding day.
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This ring is a token of my love. I marry you with this ring, with all that I have and all that I am
Response:
I will forever wear this ring as a sign of my commitment and the desire of my heart
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I give you this ring to wear with love and joy. As a ring has no end, neither shall my love for you. I choose you to be my (wife / husband) this day and forevermore.
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This ring I give to you as a token of my love and devotion to you. I pledge to you all that I am and all that I will ever be as your (husband/wife). With this ring, I gladly marry you and join my life to yours.
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I give this ring as my gift to you. Wear it and think of me and know that I love you.
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I give you this ring in God's name, as a symbol of all that we have promised and all that we shall share.
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I give you this ring as a visible and constant symbol of my promise to be with you as long as I live.
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I give you this ring as a symbol of my love for you. Let it be a reminder that I am always by your side and that I will always be a faithful partner to you.
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I give you this ring as a symbol of my love, my faith in our strength together, and my covenant to learn and grow with you
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Let this ring be a symbol of my promises to you and a reminder of my devotion to you. I am honored to call you my (wife/husband).
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With this ring, I thee wed, and with it, I bestow upon thee all the treasures of my mind, heart, and hands.
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(Name), I give you this ring as a symbol of my love. As it encircles your finger, may it remind you always that you are surrounded by my enduring love.
Response: I will wear it gladly. Whenever I look at it, I will remember this joyous day and the vows we've made.
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I have for you a golden ring. The most precious metal symbolizes that your love is the most precious element in my life. The ring has no beginning and no ending, which symbolizes that the love between us will never cease. I place it on your finger as a visible sign of the vows which have made us husband and wife.
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Because this ring is perfectly symmetrical, it signifies the perfection of true love. As I place it on your finger, I give you all that I am and ever hope to be.
Response: Because this ring has no end or beginning, it signifies the continuation of true love. As I place it on your finger, I give you all that I am and ever hope to be.
Religious
Vows for the Ring Ceremony
Protestant I give you this ring as a symbol of my love; and with all that I am and all that I have, I honor you, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Episcopalian
(Name), I give you this ring as a symbol of my vow, and with all that I am and all that I have, I honor you, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Jewish
Harey at mekuddeshet li b'taba'at zo k'dat Moshe v'Israel (which means, Behold, thou art consecrated unto me with this ring according to the law of Moses and of Israel).
Presbyterian
This ring I give you, in token and pledge of our constant faith and abiding love.
Roman Catholic
In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, take and wear this ring as sign of my love and faithfulness.
Unitarian
With this ring, I wed you, and pledge you my love, now and forever.
Lutheran
I give you this ring as a sign of my love and faithfulness. Receive this ring as a token of wedded love and faith.
Methodist
I give you this ring as a sign of my vow, and with all that I am, and all that I have; I honor you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Baptist
With this ring I thee wed, and all my worldly goods I thee endow. In sickness and in health, in poverty or in wealth, till death do us part.
Quaker
No traditional exchange of rings
Muslim
Rings are traditionally exchanged during the mangni, a betrothal ceremony, but not during the wedding itself.
Hindu
Traditions vary, particularly within different regions of India. Most Hindus exchange a necklace
called a thaali
or thirumangalyam in Southern India or called a mangalsutra in
Northern India. You might say: "Praying the Almighty that I be blessed
with a long life, I tie this knot around your neck. Oh! Sowbhagyavati, may
Providence bestow on you a fulfilling life of a 'Sumangali' for a hundred years
to come!"
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Lastly, if you find something particularly meaningful to say during your ring ceremony, you may wish to engrave your wedding rings with that phrase.
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Lastly, if you find something particularly meaningful to say during your ring ceremony, you may wish to engrave your wedding rings with that phrase.
Wiki hii nimeona ni vyema tukabadilishana uzoefu juu ya suala zima la wivu katika mapenzi. Mtakubaliana nami kuwa suala la kuwa na wivu kwa mpenzi wako ni jambo lisilokwepeka hasa kwa sababu kubwa ya kuaminika kwake kwamba kuwa na wivu ni moja ya kigezo cha kuonesha ni jinsi gani unampenda mpenzio na kwamba hauko tayari kwa namna yoyote ile kushea na mwingine ndio maana wanawake wengi hawataki kusikia suala la ukewenza kabisaa! Hata kama jambo hilo limepewa baraka zote na dini au tamaduni zao.
Lakini kubwa katika wivu ni ile kutokuwa tayari kuona tunasalitiwa na wapenzi/wanandoa na hasa kwa wale tunaowapenda ukweli toka moyoni mwetu na zaidi ukute ndo tumeshawagharamikia kiasi cha kutosha na kujitoa kwao kwa kila kitu!
Umeshawahi kusikia kauli kama “Jamani mke (au mume) anauma! Au kauli kama mke wa mtu sumu” na hugeuka sumu kweli hasa pale “unapobambwa” na mali za wenyewe, kufanyiwa “kitu mbaya” inakuwa sio jambo la ajabu sana.
Niwaambie kitu wapenzi wasomaji! Mapenzi bwana ni “full uchoyo, ni full kujipendelea! Mpenzi wanaume kwa mfano, anaweza kufikiria kwamba ni yeye tu ndiye anayestahili na anayeweza kumfanya mpenzi wake acheke na kufurahi.
Na kwamba akitokea mwanaume mwingine akapata nafasi ya kumfurahisha mpenzi huyo hata katika stori za kawaida tu, unaweza ukasikia akisema, “Hivi wewe mna nini na huyo jamaa, mbona unamchekea chekea hivyo, au…!” Hiyo ndiyo choyo ya penzi, na kikubwa kinachofanyika hapo ni ile tu kujaribu kulinda maslahi binafsi.
Pamoja na ukweli kwamba tabia ya wivu inapozidi hugeuka kuwa kero, lakini kabla hatujafika huko hebu tuangalie nafasi ya wivu katika mapenzi yetu. Yaani swali ni kwamba, je! Wivu katika mapenzi unaleta maana?
Nionavyo mimi wivu ukitumika vizuri unaleta maana na una nafasi muhimu sana katika mapenzi kwa sababu zifuatazo:
Huonesha kujali
Sote tunaamini pasipo na wivu hata chembe, hapana mapenzi ya kweli. Kumuonesha wivu mpenzi wako ni kumjulisha ni kiasi gani unamjali na kumpenda na kwamba yeye ni mtu maalum sana kwako.
Jamani, mahali penye mapenzi yasiyo na wivu hata kidogo, panatia shaka! Na mara nyingi majibu yake ni kutokuwa “serious” katika uhusiano huo au huenda kuna kupitisha muda tu na kwamba labda hakuna “future” na mpenzi huyo au ni dalili ya kuchuja kwa penzi.
Kuthamini uhusiano
“Sio kama sikuamini dear, bali wivu wangu kwako ni katika kuuthamini uhusiano wetu, mimi na wewe ni umoja wenye thamani kubwa, tusiruhusu kuuchezea nje yetu! Huu ni mfano wa ujumbe unaoonesha maana na nafasi ya wivu katika mahusiano ya kimapenzi.
Kukumbushana
Kauli au matendo yanayoashiria kumuonesha wivu mpenzio yanasaidia kwa kiasi kikubwa kumfanya mwenzi wako “asijisahau” katika jukumu la kulienzi penzi lenu hata akiwa mbali ya upeo wa macho yako.
Kujijengea heshima
Kwa namna moja au nyingine, wivu pia huweza kukujengea heshima. Kwa mfano mume mwenye wivu na mkewe hujijengea heshima ya kwamba kweli anamjali na kumpenda mkewe lakini pia anaweka mazingira ya kutosumbuliwa kwa mke wake huyo kumjengea heshima yake kama mke wa mtu.
Husaidia kubadilisha tabia
Ukiwa na wivu, unaotokana na mavazi “tatanishi” anayopendelea kuvaa mpenzi wako kwa mfano, huenda ikasaidia kubadili tabia yake.
“Ni kweli umependeza na umetoka “chicha” ile mbaya mpenzi, lakini mh! Naogopa wanaume wakware watakusumbua honey, unaonaje ukavaa simpo tu?” Kama anakupenda huenda akabadilika kidogo na hivyo “vivazi vyake
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